12 reasons boomers miss the glory days of department stores

Back in the day, department stores were not purely places for buying goods, they were about experiences and those are the days that many Boomers miss.

A personalized shopping experience

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In the good old days, department stores weren’t just places to buy things, they were about connections. Salesmen had real knowledge of what they were selling and made time to understand what you needed.

Whether you were looking for a dress or recommendation for best cookware, they were there to help you along the way. It made shopping feel thoughtful and personalized.

One-stop shopping

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You could just walk into a department store & get everything you wanted; Clothing, shoes, furniture, even presents for all seasons, all at your fingertips. It was so easy to do all this in one day without having to rush from store to store.

Quality products

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It wasn’t just a question of getting the lowest priced option back then. Department stores were known for their good quality products.

Clothes were durable, furniture was well-made & appliances stood the test of time. You knew you were investing in something good.

Iconic architecture and ambiance

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Most department stores were situated in large, elegant buildings with marble floors, chandeliers and fine furnishings. Even just walking into one made you feel like you were in a special place.

It gave a sense of excitement to even the most mundane shopping experience. Our cookie-cutter strip-malls and online stores just aren’t up to it.

Community gathering spot

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In the days before online shopping, department stores were where people met. It was not just a place to shop, it was a place to go meet friends or family.

From talking to salesmen to meeting old friends, department stores felt like a real neighborhood.

Seasonal events and sales

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Every season brought something to look forward to. Christmas windows would be adorned with holiday decor, and back-to-school sales would make shopping a family affair. Department stores guaranteed holidays and special days were remembered.

Quality service and trust

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You could always rely on department stores for reliable service. They were known for standing behind their goods and providing customer satisfaction. You didn’t need to stress about cheap returns or shoddy service because you were assured of trust when you shop with a known store.

Unique products

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In the old days, department stores sold exclusive products you could only buy in those stores. Everything from designer collaborations to limited editions made it feel extra special because what you were getting was something different and personal.

Friendly staff

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Going shopping used to be more leisurely.  The staff didn’t just try to make sales – they interacted, listened, and ensured you got out with a smile. It was less commercial and more intimate.

In-store cafés and restaurants

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Going shopping was exhausting, but many department stores also had small cafés or even restaurants tucked away inside. To go get a cup of coffee or a pie while on a shopping mission made the day memorable. It was time to rest, fuel and maybe people-watch for a bit.

Specialized departments

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Going into a department store was like going to different worlds. Each section, be it the toys for children, women’s gowns, or suits for men, was different. Boomers recall roaming around these areas, sometimes lost, but always interested.

Layaway programs

Since everything’s changing all the time, it sometimes makes me think I'm clinging to lessons from the past with things I teach my kids. But I believe old life lessons still have plenty to offer.Patience Is a Virtue
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I want my kids to practice being patient, even though no one likes to wait for anything in today's world.

However, good things usually take time. Like when we bake cookies together, we have to wait for them to be just right or when we plant seeds in the garden, it takes weeks to see them sprout. Doing so helps my kids slow down & enjoy life's little moments.

Hard Work Always Pays Off
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I tell my kids to always give it their all and instead of trying to find the easy way out, they get their hands dirty. When my daughter struggled with math homework, she stuck with it and her grades improved.

Same way, my son didn't give up till he learned his favorite song on his guitar.

Seeing them so happy when they reach their goals reminds me why hard work matters so much.

Respect Your Elders
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Respecting older people is always important & I taught this to my kids. Of course, they might roll their eyes when Grandpa starts telling his fishing tales again but I remind them he has a lifetime of experiences.

Essentially, they learn to appreciate the wisdom that comes with age.

Money Doesn't Buy Happiness
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Even though social media constantly shows them otherwise, I try my best to explain to my kids that more stuff will not make them happy.

The excitement fades. Instead, we've made memories camping in the backyard & having movie nights; these experiences bring us closer.

Laughter with friends or family game nights are more important than toys and video games.

Manners Matter
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Even today, I firmly believe that manners are important and I remind my kids to say "please" & "thank you,” as well as greeting neighbors with a smile.

They try to help when someone needs it and show kindness to brighten up someone's day.

Honesty Is the Best Policy
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I always tell my kids to tell the truth and especially when it’s hard. If they break something or forget to do a chore, they understand that owning up is the right thing to do as opposed to hiding mistakes.

People know they can count on them which is something they’ll never get from a textbook.

Finish What You Start
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If my kids start something, I expect them to finish it. Things like sports they take up, hobbies they pick up.

We always talk about this whenever they feel like quitting something. They tell me how they feel so much more accomplished by sticking to their goals. As such, they stay ready to take on new goals.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words
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Making plans and saying things is great, but actually doing them is more important. Kids may say they want to help out more at home, but when they actually do it, it means a lot.

If they say they'll work harder at school, actually showing it by doing it makes me very proud.

Treat Others as You Want to Be Treated
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I always tell my kids to treat people the way they'd like to be treated. If they don't like being teased, they shouldn't tease others and being kind to others helps them as much as it helps you.

Best of all, being considerate helps to build better friendships. It also makes the world a bit nicer & that’s great for everyone.

Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover
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Lots of people judge others by how they look or act, but I discourage my kids from doing so.

My daughter thought a new girl at school seemed unfriendly but I asked her to try talking her or including her anyway. It turns out that the girl was just shy. Now they're great friends. Essentially, I help them understand that keeping an open mind leads to unexpected & wonderful experiences.
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Layaway was a lifesaver. You could buy what you liked, pay in smaller installments, and bring it home when it was all cleared. No credit card debt & no interest; just a convenient means of buying expensive goods. That made things such as Christmas shopping so much easier.